Farewell Talk in Riva Ridge Ward
Blessings of Observing the
Sabbath 11.8.15
Good afternoon brothers and sisters. I just got home from BYU
Hawai’i last Saturday and I had the time of my life. I’m still adjusting back
with this freezing weather. Something that I loved in Hawai’i is that everyone
was ohana and we always gave aloha. For example, at any social gathering
anywhere, (class, fireside, service project, church) and someone was going to
say something in front of the group, they would start with aloha to the people
and the people would give their support and love and say aloha back. I’m
excited to speak to you but also very nervous and would love to share my aloha
with you. Brothers and sisters ALOHA
Within the last couple years, Sundays have become a special
day for me. It has been my release from the normal every day and school grind.
For me it was a day to put school, friends, and stresses aside for one day and
have a chance to focus on my goals and my relationship with my Savior.
The
prophet Spencer W. Kimball counseled: “The Sabbath is a holy day in which to do
worthy and holy things. Abstinence from work and recreation is important but
insufficient. The Sabbath calls for constructive thoughts and acts, and if one
merely lounges about doing nothing on the Sabbath, he is breaking it. To
observe it, one will be on his knees in prayer, preparing lessons, studying the
gospel, meditating, visiting the ill and distressed, reading wholesome
material, and attending all the meetings of that day to which he is expected.
[Failure] to do these proper things is a transgression on the omission side.”
When I was at home I would try my best to treasure Sundays by
participating in church, spending time with my family making new memories, we
would have Family Home Evening, and talk about the gospel.
When I was at school is when I would go to church, call my
family, and study PMG, focus on my relationship with my Savior by studying the
scriptures or trying to be more like Him by serving my roommates and others.
When we keep Sundays sacred we are blessed! A talk by John
H. Groberg shares this story. “The
small island kingdom of Tonga lies immediately next to the international
dateline, so it is the first country in the world to greet the Sabbath day. It
is a small country and, in the counting of the world, a poor country. But years
ago a wise Tongan king decreed that the Sabbath would be kept holy in Tonga
forever.
Modern
civilization has come in many ways to Tonga. If you go to the capital of
Nuku’alofa on a weekday, you will find the usual heavy traffic of trucks and
cars and the bustle of thousands of shoppers making their regular purchases
from well-stocked stores and markets. You’ll see people line up to view the
latest movies and to rent videos. You can watch modern buses whisk tourists off
to catch their jet planes, or observe the speed and clarity of a satellite call
to the United States. The streets are crowded and business is good. You might
wonder, “What is so different about this town from hundreds of others like it
throughout the world?”
But
when Sunday dawns on the kingdom of Tonga, a transformation takes place. If one
goes downtown, he sees deserted streets—no taxis or buses or crowds of people.
All the stores, all the markets, all the movie theaters, all the offices are
closed. No planes fly, no ships come in or out, no commerce takes place. No
games are played. The people go to church. Tonga is remembering to keep the
Sabbath day holy. It is significant that the first country in the world to greet
the holy Sabbath keeps the Sabbath holy.
Has
the Lord blessed them? Maybe the world cannot see his blessings, but in the
ways that really count, he has blessed them abundantly. He has blessed them
with the gospel of Jesus Christ, and a larger percentage of the population
there belongs to the Church than in any other country. (1984)
What do you think it would feel like to walk through this
town? On a Sunday in Tonga, would you feel anxious, uneasy, and unsafe like so
many other cities? Or would the feeling be calm, peaceful, and serene? One of
the blessings of keeping the Sabbath holy is having the Spirit of God with you,
to direct you, to comfort and protect you, to lead you to do God’s will. When
we are prepared for Sunday, we are able to invite the Holy Ghost to help us
communicate with God so that we may become like Him and our Savior Jesus
Christ. We can become perfected in Christ by repenting and forsaking our sins
by using Jesus Christ’s Atonement. We have an incredible gift given to us that
we are able to make an ordinance every Sunday that enables us to become clean
from our sins. We partake of the sacrament.
The sacrament is a symbolic ordinance of the Atonement of
Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ, the Son of God, atoned for each one of our sins. He
suffered for our pains, sorrows, sins, and sicknesses in a Garden for every one
of us. He endured these things so that we may repent and come back to live with
Him. Though His grace and mercy, He can help us in our trials of life and
relieve the guilt of sins, pain of heartache, and sorrow of life.
In
the Book of Mormon (another testament of Christ) it testifies in Alma 7:11-12
11. And he (Jesus Christ) shall go
forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this
that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains
and the sicknesses of his people.
12. And he will take upon him death, that he may
loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their
infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh,
that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to
their infirmities.
This is such a powerful
witness. Jesus knows how to comfort us. If our sins are already paid for, why
would we still hold on to them? Give them up to Christ. “You can offer the Lord
the gift of your broken, or repentant, heart and your contrite, or obedient,
spirit. In reality, it is the gift of yourself – what you are and what you are
becoming. Is there something in your life that is impure or unworthy? When you
get rid of it, that is a gift to the Savior. Is there a good habit or quality
that is lacking in your life? When you adopt it and make it part of your
character, you are giving a gift to the Lord.”
The Atonement of Christ is
powerful and all encompassing. In one of my sister’s mission companion’s emails
home, she included a quote that is quickly becoming one of my favorites.
"We
know that Jesus experienced the totality of mortal existence in Gethsemane.
It's our faith that He experienced everything--absolutely everything. Sometimes
we don't think through the implications of that belief. We talk in great generalities
about the sins of all humankind, about the suffering of the entire human
family. But we don't experience pain in generalities. We experience it
individually. That means He knows what it felt like when your mother died of
cancer--how it was for your mother, how it still is for you. He knows what it
felt like to lose the student body election. He knows that moment when the
brakes locked and the car started to skid. He's been there. He's been lower
than all that. He's not waiting for us to be perfect. Perfect people don't need
a Savior. He came to save his people in their imperfections. He is the Lord of
the living, and the living make mistakes."
Use the Atonement. Repent and do better next time.
Jesus said, “If ye love me, keep my commandments.” The
sacrament gives us an opportunity for introspection and an opportunity to turn
our heart and will to God. Obedience to the commandments brings the power of
the gospel into our lives and greater peace and spirituality.
(D&C 14:7) And, if you keep my commandments and endure to
the end you shall have eternal life, which gift is the greatest of all the
gifts of God.
President
Utchdorf teaches us to have joy in the commandments God gives to us. He says,
“and yet for some of us, obedience to God’s commandments doesn’t always feel
very joyful. Let’s face it: there may be some that seem harder or less
appealing—commandments that we approach with the enthusiasm of a child sitting
before a plate of healthy but hated vegetables. We grit our teeth and force
ourselves to comply so that we can move on to more desirable activities.
We
need to accept that the commandments of God aren’t just a long list of good
ideas. They aren’t “life hacks” from an Internet blog or motivational quotes
from a Pinterest board. They are divine counsel, based on eternal truths, given
to bring “peace in this world, and eternal life in the world to come.”
But what is the greatest commandment of all? Jesus says when
asked this question, “Love God, and love thy neighbor as thyself”
No matter where we are in life, we can start where we are and
change. Start by loving God and thinking of Him. Starting here will help you to
make small changes in your life.
Steps in the temple:
When I was at college, I had the opportunity to be a temple worker
for the last part of the semester and it was an incredible, life-changing
experience for me. While I’ve been working there I have noticed something very
symbolic. When you do an endowment, the Laie temple is special in that it is
only one of few temples that switch rooms during the session. For those of you
unfamiliar with what happens in a session, (I know it’s okay that I’m saying
this, I checked, no need to feel uncomfortable) you watch a video of the
creation of the Earth and about Adam and Eve and you make special, sacred
covenants. In the Laie temple, you switch between 5 rooms. You start in the
Creation room, go up only a couple stairs to the Garden of Eden room, go up a
few more stairs to the Telestial room, and finally, up the last stairs to the
Terrestrial room where you will transition to the Celestial room. When you get
into the Celestial room, it is glorious, bright, and full of light. Not just
figurative light, real light. When you look at the temple from the road, the
Celestial room is the box that is the very top of the temple, it’s the highest
point you can get to. It has large windows that let in the beautiful sunshine
and make it the brightest Celestial room I’ve ever been in. The first time I
went through the session in this temple I didn’t realize I was going up so many
stairs because it is just a few at a time every time we switched rooms. But
when I went through the door to the Celestial room it was just an overpowering
feeling of extraordinary beauty and the presence of Heavenly Father. The second
part of the story is that since I’ve been a temple worker, I have seen the
behind the scenes part and have been able to see this different symbolic side.
There is a part in the session where several temple workers
need to come to the Terrestrial Room to help with some covenants. That means we
have to go from the ground floor all the way to the top. There are 42 stairs
that take you to the top of the temple. Many of the workers on my shift are
very mobile but also elderly and they struggle going up the 2 flights of the
back staircase, they will usually take the elevator up. But I have seen much
older and much less mobile brothers and sisters, some with walkers and serious
handicaps, do a session and go up those few stairs at a time to get to every
room. Now I bet you can tell where this metaphor is going. When we take these
steps just a few at a time, it is very doable and successful for us to make it
to our end goal, the Celestial Room, or to be in the presence of God. If we try
to take it immediately as that straight shot 2 flight set of stairs, we get
worn out, lose our drive, and become discouraged. If you are not where you want
to be when keeping your covenants, start making the change today. Take these
necessary steps to get you to your end goal and closer and closer to our
Heavenly Father. Don’t go trying to race up the flights of stairs in some
unnecessary footrace to the top. Pace yourself to take your own stairs, make
your own goals, and take the first steps in changing today.
For example, start with researching the covenants we make
when you take the sacrament. Or ideas for how you can better keep the Sabbath
day holy. What are the blessings you have felt when you try it for one Sunday? While
you make these goals and while you’re taking these steps, reach out to your
Savior to help you.
Sister Tanner reminds us, “The Lord has
promised us that He will not forget us because He has “graven [us] upon the
palms of [His] hands” (Isa. 49:16). And our promise to Him is that we will not
forget Him, for we have engraven Him in our hearts.
I know we have busy lives and crazy things going on but I
know as you work on putting God first in your life, striving to keep the
commandments, and observing the Sabbath Day to keep it holy, you will have true
peace and joy. I want to end by this reminder and powerful motivation from
President Utchdorf.
You
are loved. You are dear to your heavenly parents. The infinite and eternal
Creator of light and life knows you! He is mindful of you. Yes, God loves you
this very day and always.
He is
not waiting to love you until you have overcome your weaknesses and bad habits.
He loves you today with a full understanding of your struggles. He is aware
that you reach up to Him in heartfelt and hopeful prayer. He knows of the times
you have held onto the fading light and believed—even in the midst of growing
darkness. He knows of your sufferings. He knows of your remorse for the times
you have fallen short or failed. And still He loves you.
And
God knows of your successes; though they may seem small to you, He acknowledges
and cherishes each one of them. He loves you for extending yourself to others.
He loves you for reaching out and helping others bear their heavy burdens—even
when you are struggling with your own.
He
knows everything about you. He sees you clearly—He knows you as you really are.
And He loves you—today and always!
Do
you suppose it matters to our Heavenly Father whether your makeup, clothes,
hair, and nails are perfect? Do you think your value to Him changes based on
how many followers you have on Instagram or Pinterest? Do you think He wants
you to worry or get depressed if some un-friend or un-follow you on Facebook or
Twitter? Do you think outward attractiveness, your dress size, or popularity
make the slightest difference in your worth to the One who created the
universe?
He
loves you not only for who you are this very day but also for the person of
glory and light you have the potential and the desire to become. More than you
could ever imagine, He wants you to achieve your destiny—to return to your
heavenly home in honor.
11:00 - Nolan family. They are the most Louisiana-y I've been. They are an less active family but loves the missionaries. They feed us every Wednesday. But they had all the southern royalties out. Stuffing is called 'dressing' so there was all kinds of dressing, pork, beef, shrimp dressing. and dirty rice is huge here. Its actually quite good. It's rice with all the seasoning, turkey liver, gizzard, and insides in it, hence 'dirty' rice. Its good! They have a sweet house and kind people :) already full here
